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As we begin to move toward fall, there’s something about this season that invites us to slow down, turn inward, and notice what we’ve been carrying. Fall is often described as a season of change and letting go. The leaves begin to shift, the days become a little quieter, and nature gently reminds us that we don’t have to hold onto everything forever. But I also know that transitions can feel heavy. As the seasons change, life doesn’t necessarily slow down with them. There can still be stress, uncertainty, financial pressure, relationship struggles, emotional exhaustion, and the quiet weight of everything we’ve been holding. Sometimes we’re expected to simply keep moving forward, even when a part of us is asking for rest. So if you’re entering this season feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, tired, or simply not quite like yourself, I want you to know: You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t have to be thriving just because a new season is beginning. Maybe this fall is less about becoming something new and more about gently returning to yourself. Maybe it’s about releasing what no longer feels aligned, creating space for what you need, and giving yourself permission to slow down. So I want to gently ask: How are you, really? Not the surface-level answer. Not the “I’m fine.” But the honest one. What are you carrying right now? What are you ready to let go of? And what part of you might be asking to be cared for? Wherever you are in this season — whether you feel grounded and hopeful or heavy and overwhelmed — there is space for you here. More than anything, my intention this season is to create spaces where you don’t have to hold everything on your own. Spaces where you can slow down. Be supported. Be met exactly where you are. And gently reconnect with yourself. A place where your nervous system can soften, even just a little. And if you’ve been feeling like it’s time to have someone walk alongside you through whatever season you’re in, I’m here. If you’d like to schedule an appointment, I would be honored to hold space for you, meet you where you are, and support you through whatever you’re carrying. You don’t have to rush through this season. You’re allowed to take your time. 🍂 With warmth, Karly Parada, RMHCI

What is overthinking, and why do we do it? Overthinking is the habit of analyzing, replaying, or worrying about situations far more than is helpful. In psychology, a common form of this is rumination, when your mind gets trapped in a negative loop, dwelling on problems without moving toward a solution. We do this because our brains are naturally hardwired for survival. Your mind treats uncertainty like a threat and tries to "solve" it by over-analyzing. But instead of keeping you safe, it just leaves you feeling exhausted, anxious, and stuck. How can CBT help? Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is an evidence-based approach that focuses on the link between your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. CBT doesn't force you to stop thinking; instead, it teaches you to notice your thoughts, question them, and reframe them. For example, instead of spiraling with "They didn't text back, so they must be mad," CBT helps you ask: "What evidence do I actually have for that?" Over time, this dials down the anxious intensity and makes room for calmer, more balanced thinking. A quick tool to try today If you catch yourself in a loop, try this simple three-step practice: Notice it: Catch the thought the moment it pops up. Name it: Say out loud, "This is just my brain looping, it’s not a fact." Question it: Ask yourself, "Is holding onto this thought actually helping me right now?" Over time, this small shift takes away the power of those automatic mental loops. If this sounds like what you’re going through, know that you aren't alone and you aren't stuck. I’m Kayla Wright, RMHCI, and I offer CBT and DBT informed therapy. Together, we can work on practical tools to spot these loops, calm your nervous system, and build a more balanced day-to-day life. Reach out today to get started.

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